So it was me? ;-;

Wait, I hardly talk to you. o-o

Go on MSN, let's talk. :D

wasn't? haha you know i still ramble to you about love. :p and now i ramble to you about a different person: christian! :D
and yeah i do talk about other things.. like hedgehogs. :)
oh & why aren't you on msn?

Are you talking about like getting to know the person before you hook up with them? Because I haven't made it past 2 dates with anyone before we pretty much do everything. And i think i only made it to date 2 once. Idk if its a gay guy thing or not but i hate it. And afterwards i get grossed out because of the lack of dignity thing and i never call or text them again. And then after the sex i use a whole bunch of mouth wash and i have to take a shower because i feel gross and worthless.
Edit: i might have already said this on here. i can't remember.
Edit: also prognosticator i was saying the go for it to brit referring to the girl who fascinated her.

Turns out she isn't a lesbian, she has a boyfriend.

And I'm honestly way too ragingly heterosexual to do the whole girl-on-girl thing. I think I was just jealous of her bohemian lifestyle.

Yeah...I knew that...

Bleh, being bisexual is a tough deal occasionally.

Straight people demand you instantly prove to them that your straight, while homosexuals want you to prove that your somewhat gay also. I also hate how we have the stereotype that we sleep with just about anyone and we're whores, not to mention a lot of homosexuals regard us as closeted gays who are just using bisexual as a comfortable stepping stone and/or hiding/lying to/from ourselves, not to mention the straights who think its all just a phase. there is indeed a lot of those out there, but there also is a lot of genuine bisexuals. There also is a small majority of gays who hate on us due to jealousy factors since we can go to both ends of the pole, and in short, live a rather normal nuclear "American dream" type of life. I'm also not saying that all gays are jealous bitches, I've just met quite a few people who feel that way.

God, high school rocks

Yeah, one night stands and the like aren't really my thing. And not just because I'm underage, I prefer sincerity. Although, what I was really saying was that the restrictions placed upon a relationship can help it become more meaningful. Oh and I said teenage love is equivalent to the love experienced in a one night stand to emphasise that it's just obsess for a bit then move on. I'd like to be proved wrong, but I doubt I will be. But I'm not saying that all teenagers are whores, I'm just saying that raging hormones deeply affect the ability to make a relationship genuin.

Amen

I think it's kind of hard to talk about this now because honestly, people change their minds about their stance on love and stuff a LOT.

For example, when I was 13 I honestly believed in waiting until you're married to have sex. Then I gradually changed to 'date for 8 years first' to 'date for a year' to 'WHENEVER YOU FEEL READY BABY'...so it's hard to gauge, I guess is what I'm saying.

Alsooo, I'm so sick of having to define sexuality! I wish we lived in a world where you could just like who you like and if they happen to be a girl, whatever, and if they happen to be a boy, whatever! It should be about the PERSON, not what's in their pants.

Yeah.

I think society is moving towards that direction, for the first part at least. The second bit will probably always have people divided, unless we begin cloning ourselves as a means for reproduction.

I agree brit. Having to put yourself as a sexual orientation is wrong!. I mean many people are probably homoflexible or heteroflexible and they have to say they are either gay bi or straight, when they a majority of the time go one way but occasionally can stray the other. So its not like they are FULL bi, but they aren't 100 percent gay or straight. Idk.
My view on love and stuff changes every couple of days too.

Agreed. After having a conversation with a girl the other night about sexual behavior before marriage and "how far is too far?" and all that usual thing saying intercourse at least should be saved til marriage, I turn around and fuck some girl I've known for 3 hours. I don't know, what I believe. Chris Rock puts it as "Men are only as loyal as their options". So, I guess my beliefs are only based on my options, yes? It's not very stable.

I question my sexuality 24/7. Currently, I'd identify as being somewhere between 2.5 and 3.5 on the Kinsey Scale. But who knows what tomorow will bring?

I went camping over the weekend, and met an awesome openly-gay guy. Our Gay-dars just kinda pinged, and thats how we met. And then the next day, there was this awkward moment where I realized I wasn't as gay as I thought, and though I never said anything he talked to me as if he realized the same thing.

But then today, my friend asked if he could lean on me, this was during watching some old school video in health class. He put his head on my shoulder, and arm on my other shoulder, and we became overly flirtatious. It was the most sensual thing that I've ever done. This wasn't the first time I've been sensually aroused by his touch. It's like we're in some subconscious relationship.

But either way, I'm queer. I am so feminine.

This topic is sooo relevant to my life right now.

I know what you mean the hammer. I feel like I will get turned on by the chase for the guy. I love everything like touching and all that leads up to sex and then when we actually to stuff, thats when my attraction leaves. Just like that. So idk whats wrong. I typically like straight men more than gay men too, which doesn't help. I'm destined to be alone with 5 dogs or something.

You can live next to me, I'm going to be the crazy cat man

I have a bad internal habit of liking straight guys

^ditto. That gets annoying. Especially the really camp-ass ones. They're more confusing than something confusing.

I dislike "straight" guys, they can be hot, but I dislike masculinity.

I don't really have that problem.

I'm bisexual, but currently going through a female attraction phase.
I float between a 2 and a 5 on the Kinsey scale, but right now I feel like a 1; which I find weird, but I'm sure that'll change by the end of the week.

I don't mean to sound like Tila Tequila, Its just my sexual preference has a mind of its own, but I've never fully been gay or hetero.

I can agree. I'm a completely straight female, yet those uber masculine/badass/thug guys annoy me. I don't like anyone who has to throw their weight around and display their strength just to get a point across or try to intimidate someone. I find few things less attractive than a guy who punches a hole in a wall just because he's pissed. I don't consider that "masculine" at all, I consider that violent and unattractive. I mean, what woman would want to be with a guy who expresses his anger with violence? Sounds like she's askin' for a whoopin' if you as me.

Gay. :)